When my Mom and Dad, moved into Delmar Gardens O’Fallon in November of 2013 we weren’t sure it was the right decision. They had been living with us and, at the time, started needing more care than we felt we could give them at home.
As their health declined we came to fully appreciate the effort made by the staff at Delmar to not only care for them physically but to help them maintain their dignity and their close personal relationship. We came to know many of the staff on a first name basis and would like to acknowledge them.
At the risk of forgetting many individuals who were very kind and helpful to Mom and Dad, we want to particularly commend Catherine, Melissa, Jen, Kayla and Crystal (during my parents time in the 500 wing). For two years they went out of their way to make the transition from full independence to assisted care as comfortable as possible. They consistently cared for Mom and Dad with love and respect. Kelly and Wilma in food service went out of their way to accommodate my parents somewhat finicky eating habits.
As Mom’s condition worsened, it was necessary for her to move to the memory care wing. The staff was kind enough to allow Dad to move with her rather than separate them. Jackie (from housekeeping) was more than helpful during the room changes and, beyond that, she became a friend to my parents and us.
On the 200 wing, we were constantly amazed by the individual care, support and genuine concern over the residents well being. Chris, Kara, Kayla, Nathan and Samantha (forgive me for not knowing the entire staff by name) are incredible. We could write pages about them and not fully convey the amount of respect and appreciation that we have for these wonderful people. As my parents entered the final stages of their lives, we knew that they were in the best hands that we could hope for. The entire staff helped JoAnn and I as much as they were helping my parents. We simply cannot express the depth of our gratitude.
We originally chose Delmar Gardens of O’Fallon because of it’s location and the appearance of the
building, rooms and grounds. And while these are important to both the residents and their families, it is the staff who make Delmar what it is. We hope that the senior management of Delmar Gardens truly appreciates the incredibly difficult work, long hours and overall high level of competence exhibited by the people who see to the needs of the residents and their families each and every day. They are your most valuable asset.
Sincerely,
Bob & JoAnn M.